I. Introduction
II. Meaning of Affirmative Emotions
1. Affirmative Emotions as Sources of Selfobject
2. Development of Narcissism and the Importance of Affirmative Emotions
III. The Presence of God as Selfobject and its relation with the Calming Structure of the Self
1. Joy as a Source of Selfobject in the Presence of God for Self Cohesion
2. Pastoral Counselors Are Agents Who Help People in Experiencing the Presence of God
IV. Case of Experiencing Joy as a Source of Selfobject in the Calming Structure of Self
1. Backgrounds of the Case
2. Joy in the Calming Structure by the Presence of God
V. Conclusion
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